From Rugby Star to Real Estate: The Unforeseen Journey of Ben Fry

The Rise and Fall of a Rugby Career

It's amazing to think there are many people who still believe the life of a professional rugby player is all glitz and glamour. If only it were a career built on financial certainty, where players are set up for life as those in the top echelons of other sports are. The reality is very different.

Indeed, the life of a rugby player is one built on blood, sweat, and tears that can be taken from you overnight.

Former Dragons and Wales U20s backrower Ben Fry is a prime example. Rewind the clock a couple of years and Fry was one of Welsh rugby's rising stars, a player who never took a backwards step and was in his element when the game was at its most physical.

Today, at the age of just 26, Fry works as an estate agent for a company called CJ Hole in Bristol, with his career as a professional rugby player a thing of the past. It is very much a case of what might have been.

The Reality of Professional Rugby

"Professional rugby is not a glamorous lifestyle," he tells WalesOnline. "It is for the 1% but for a lot of people it is a very up and down career without much stability and a lot of unknown."

Fry reflects on his time in rugby with some regret, acknowledging that he took his opportunities for granted.

The Shift to Real Estate

Now, Fry is thriving in his new role, stating, "I am really enjoying it. The company has been great taking me on because I had absolutely no experience but they have trained me up and I love the job."

Despite the challenges of commuting from Cardiff, Fry finds fulfillment in meeting new people and selling beautiful houses in Clifton.

The Downfall of a Career

Back in 2023, the Welsh Rugby Union was embroiled in turmoil, affecting many players, especially those not in senior international positions. Fry's career took a significant hit when he was not offered a new contract. "It was an absolute shambles and not nice for anyone," he said, indicating the broader issues within the organization.

A New Chapter in Texas

Fry later took a contract with Dallas Jackals in the USA, experiencing a vastly different lifestyle. However, the instability continued when the team went bust shortly after the season ended. Faced with the reality of supporting his family, Fry made the tough decision to leave rugby behind for a more stable career.

Reflecting on the Past

Despite the challenges, Fry looks back fondly on his rugby career. "I'd describe my professional rugby career as short, sharp, and the best time of my life," he said, cherishing the memories and experiences gained.

Future Possibilities

Fry is open to the possibility of returning to rugby, particularly in the community game, but hesitates, knowing how much he loved the sport. "If someone was to approach me I'd definitely be open to having a conversation."

Fry’s story is a stark reminder that behind every big hit and hard-fought match lies a human being navigating the uncertainty of a sport that can give everything and take it all away just as fast.